Mikayla Matthews and Jace Terry Announce Separation
Mikayla Matthews and Jace Terry have raised significant questions regarding their relationship after announcing their separation in Episode 9 of Season 4 of the reality show ‘Secret Lives of Mormon Wives’. The couple, who has been married since 2018 and share four children, revealed that their decision was influenced by ongoing intimacy issues and personal struggles, including Matthews’ past experiences with sexual abuse.
In their candid discussion, Matthews shared that the couple has been facing difficulties in their relationship, particularly regarding intimacy. She stated, “We both agreed to do a separation,” emphasizing that the decision was made with the well-being of their children in mind. The couple’s children, Beckham, 8, Haven, 6, Tommie, 4, and Lottie, born in July 2025, are at the forefront of their considerations as they navigate this challenging period.
Matthews has openly discussed her struggles with an undiagnosed chronic illness, which has compounded the challenges she faces postpartum after the birth of their youngest child. This context has contributed to her feelings of uncertainty about their relationship, as she expressed a lack of motivation to work on their sex life at this time. “I think itโs definitely hard to put a timeline on the situation because it could take weeks, it could take months to be healed,” she noted, highlighting the complexities of their situation.
Jace Terry, on the other hand, has expressed a desire for their children to witness a healthy, intimate connection between their parents. He stated, “More than the actual sex I just want to feel like I can connect with my wife again, and I want to feel loved by my wife.” This sentiment underscores the emotional dimensions of their separation, as both parents grapple with their individual needs and the impact on their family.
The couple’s separation is not framed as a permanent decision, with Matthews indicating, “I donโt think itโs like with the intention of being separated forever.” This leaves open the possibility for reconciliation in the future, although the timeline remains uncertain. Matthews has emphasized the importance of focusing on her healing process, which includes addressing various personal issues beyond just their intimacy challenges.
As they navigate this separation, the couple’s commitment to their children remains a priority. They have made it clear that their decision was made with careful consideration of how it would affect their family dynamics. The ongoing dialogue about their relationship on ‘Secret Lives of Mormon Wives’ provides a public platform for their struggles, shedding light on the complexities of marriage and family life.
Details remain unconfirmed regarding the specific steps they will take moving forward, but both Matthews and Terry have expressed a willingness to work through their issues. As they embark on this new chapter, the focus will likely remain on healing and understanding, both individually and as co-parents.
